What is Normal Teenage Behavior?
It can be very difficult to tell what normal teenage behaviour is. It is perfectly normal for teenagers to worry about how to look, be selfish, act out and have certain changes in their mood. Their brains are still developing so it’s very common for teens to act unreasonably or engage in risky behaviour.
However, dealing with a teenager is not easy. No matter how much of a good parent you are, and how great your relationship is with your child, you cannot stop a teenager from lashing out, separating or making risky decisions. It is common for teenagers to manifest unusual behaviour. You can deal with them easily if you are willing to put in the effort to understand what they are going through instead of judging them and what it is that they need from you.
Teens are midway between children and adults. They’re still finding themselves, learning to live in the society and accommodating the new point of view they see as they grow up.
But what is unusual behaviour? It’s not always easy to tell.
Mental illness in a teenager is very common because this is often when symptoms of anxiety, depression, and other emotions come forth. That’s why it is important for parents, family members, and loved ones to understand mental illness and always stay with an adolescent during their hard times.
Growing up is hard. Responsibilities are increased and it is stressful. Emotions are difficult to manage and to understand everything in a positive way all the time, is harder. For teens, these pressures are heightened and they haven’t yet learned how to manage perspectives of life yet.
It may be easier to explain which behaviours indicate teenage mental health issues.
Signs Of Unusual Behaviour:
- No motivation for literally anything
- Absent days in school or poor school performance
- Avoiding friends or creating a social life
- Loss of interest in activities
- Insomnia and nightmares
- Fidgeting or being lost in their thoughts
- They seem anxious
- Tired all the time
- Overreacting or not eating at all
- Bipolar moods and lack of energy to being hyperactive
- Self-harm (cutting, picking, biting, punching random things like walls or hair pulling)
- Suicidal thoughts or actions
- Constantly irritable or always reacts in an unreasonable manner
- Feels like a person is controlling their thoughts, actions; hearing voices
- Smoking or taking drugs
If a teen is going through any of these, this would absolutely signify a red flag. It can be difficult as a parent to know what normal teenage behaviour is. There may be days when you feel that your child is anything but normal. However, while the teen years can be challenging, it is perfectly normal for your adolescent to act out and have certain changes in mood and behaviour.
Speak to them about what they’re going through before it gets too late. You may want to make sure your teen grows up to be a healthy, fulfilled adult.
What Can You Do To Achieve Normal Teenage Behavior?
Here are some tips that can help you in aiding and supporting a teenager, even at times when you don’t fully comprehend their behaviour, needs and their suffering. Be with them through their tough times because that is the most significant and the best thing you can do for them.
If your kid is still a preteen, prepare your toddler for the challenges they will face as they get bigger and grow. By helping an adolescent understand the changes they will face before they are mature enough can lead to a greater relationship between a child and parent.
Allow them to make mistakes by themselves because as Mary Tyler Moore says, “Take chances, make mistakes. That’s how you grow”
As they will grow up in the future, if you don’t let them face any negativity, it may hurt their expectations and what to anticipate as they grow older.
If your child is showing damaging or improper behaviour, you may want to consider consulting a therapist as soon as possible before the situation gets dire.
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