HAPPY MARRIAGE TIPS FOR A SUCCESSFUL LIFE
When a man and a woman start living together after marriage, there can be difference of opinions and issues of mutual understanding between them. The issues must be resolved, otherwise the differences will multiply and disputes will increase.
Here are some happy marriage tips for a successful life:
Never FOCUS on your spouse’s flaws and weaknesses.
Every person whether it’s your spouse or a friend has some sort of weakness. Only our creator is perfect and free from any weaknesses or imperfections. So stop focusing on your partner’s shortcomings and flaws.
Get the POSITIVE out of her/his strength!!
If you have to criticize, do it positively and lovingly.
Advise your spouse wisely with dignity.
Stop DIGGING into your spouse’s past.
No one has a bright past. Whether you are married or are going to be married,
stop investigating into your partner’s past life.
Don’t focus on the past life but PRESENT of your partner.
One of the most important tip in this list of happy marriage tips is not bringing up their past to the present.
Forgive, ignore and overlook the mistakes and shortcomings of your PARTNER.
Marriage brings it’s own set of TRIALS and Challenges.
Every good and successful marriage has experienced it’s own set of trials and difficulties. Sincerity and love proves itself in times of trials and difficulties. Struggle utmost for a happy marriage. Try to STAY and COMFORT your partner in times of trial.
The promise you made while getting married. Be there for your spouse in any situation whether good or bad.
Success has different levels of marriage.
Don’t match your marriage with someone’s marriage life. Other’s situation may be different. It can never be same. Some will be happy and some will be sad due to lack of respect and mutual understanding.
For a successful marriage!
Try to be patient and strive hard to make it successful. Surely, with time, your marriage will be a HAPPY one.
Never try to win an argument, discard it even if you think the other may be wrong.
Maintain your marriage commitments and ignore the following things that make marriage UNSUCCESSFUL:
- Lack of mutual respect
- Lack of Mercy and Compassion
- Other family member’s influence
- Being greedy and selfish
- Lack of flexibility
- Lack of love and support
- Arrogant demeanor
- Showing rudeness, being abusive and ignorant or having bad manners
- Lack of trust/being suspicious
Never be CARELESS about your marriage.
No marriage can be perfect and for a happy one, an utmost struggle is required.
WORK ON it daily and volunteer yourself for it!
Marriage needs proper maintenance and proper service like a vehicle. It will break down if you do not work on it.
Not be careless about our marriages.
MAINTAIN your marriage through prayer, love and patience.
Our Lord didn’t create any person perfect and complete. He completes you by giving you a person in the form of raw material.
Strive hard to maintain your happy marriage.
Mould your partner with prayer, love and patience. Anger is the root cause of all marital discords and disputes.
Try to control your anger!
Express your gratitude to your partner at least ONCE every day.
NEVER predict the future.
Do not let your marriage go at risk.
Predict what will happen in the future. Situations may vary and change so leave room for reformation. A husband can lose his status by losing his good job or a wife may fail in domestic chores and family management.
Prayers, patience and good understanding are required to maintain good relationships, otherwise, separation would be imminent.
Marriage is a contract between two people.
It is a lifelong contract and commitment. Love and respect maintain this contract and commitment forever. Never entertain negative feelings and bad thoughts of getting a divorce as it will always lead to depression. Choose to remain TOGETHER and UNITED. Our creator dislikes separation between couples.
When you think you have done something wrong, admit and accept your mistake and ask for forgiveness.
Deposit love, peace and care into YOUR marriage.
Marriage is like a bank account. It is like money that you deposit and withdraw. If you don’t deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you do not deserve a blissful home.
A successful marriage is the outcome of a consistent investment of forgiveness, compassion, mercy, mutual respect, prayer and commitment between a husband and a wife.
Let us pray for our marriages and ask our creator to help us in places where we are lacking in our marriages. Care about people around you because you never know who may be willing to help you. May God bless all of our marriages and make us successful!